What is a technology detox?
How long do I have to do it for?
You will know you've reached a goal when you open a Youtube video that spiked your curiosity and then you feel like you can't stand watching the full length of it. You may or may not get annoyed at it and feel an uncomfortable pressure in your chest if you force yourself to watch the full length.
Why should I do it?
Dopamine ... ?
In essence, it makes us desire things.
Our dependence on technology is in part caused by an unnaturally high amount of dopamine intake, which makes our body build tolerance and just like with alcohol addictions, you need more and more to feel satisfied while the low dopamine types of activities no longer interest you.
What am I supposed to do during this time?!
But you can also develop a new hobby, indulge in your passion, paint, write, sing, dance, cook, meditate, spend quality time with your partner etc. Reading books can be addictive so be weary of that.
It depends on your goal.
If you want to find you calling, make it a point to only do what you really feel like doing. There will be a whole blog post dedicated to finding your calling here.
If you want to improve your relationships, invest more time in activities and communications with your partner, child, neighbor, etc. Though be cautious with how much time you invest with friends, some people can become addicted to meeting with their friend group and it wold cancel out the detox itself by replacing one addiction with another.
I advice that you spend time in nature: take a walk in the park or the nearest forest; tend to your garden or pot plants inside your apartment, take a trip to the mountains or the seaside.
The most important and useful thing you can do is Emotional Vipassana.
Can I just take a peek at what my friends on social media/discord/gaming server are doing?
How did it go for you?
My main goal was to find my calling so I sat and thought about what I really feel like doing. I had some difficulty with it but as the cravings reached their peak and faded away, what I actually felt like doing became more and more obvious.
At first I started oil-painting. Then I took a long and pleasant walk into a new area of a forest, that I haven't been to before and came back home with a ragged piece of half-rotten log. I felt like sculpting it so I ordered small chisels online which arrived ~5 days later. During those 5 days I painted, draw, meditated, cooked, cleaned the house and other chores. Once the chisels arrived I was excited to try them so it was easy for me to start woodcarving but I kept up the other activities as well.
The whole 2.5 months were spent like that until one day I had the obvious revelation of my calling.
That's when I finally turned the PC back on.
Is there anything dangerous that I should be aware of before I start?
Phones off and Good luck!
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